Back to Work: It's Expensive to Make Money

by a.b.

So this week marks my first week back to work. For those of you just tuning in, a move to Portland, OR has had me on unemployment since June, panicking that it would run out in December, and now working in an administrative capacity for the first time in over three years. (Thank goodness Microsoft doesn't change their shortcuts!)

In between panic attacks, what struck me the most is how much it costs to work. I understand more now why some mothers choose to stay home for financial reasons. If I had to pay for daycare on top of daily expenses, my time would be better spent cutting expenses at home!

The commute is the real killer. I can choose to pay for a daily bus pass at $4.75 and spend an extra 2 hours commuting, or I could choose to pay for gas and parking fees at $9 a day. There's another possibility I'm exploring, parking in a free parking lot and taking the MAX line. I'd only pay for gas with an extra one hour in commute time.

I also underestimated food and drink costs. My schedule bridges right over lunch time, but my office doesn't have a refrigerator or water cooler. I'm bringing my own filtered water, an electric teakettle, and looking into small snacks like granola bars. If I wasn't doing this I'd be spending an additional $3-7 per day.

I work for four hours a day, but am spending the proceeds from about 1-1.5 hour(s) of work everyday. Luckily, after the holiday season, my husband's schedule will match mine again and we can share commuting and commute costs.

I'm happy to be back at work, but wish I didn't have to pay for the privilege.

Photo Courtesy of fotographix.ca

Carnival of Money Stories - When The Sky Falls, You Can Still Be Happy

Thank you for visiting the Carnival of Money Stories. These days if the sky isn't falling, many people are worrying that it is, or learning how to cope. So today's theme is keeping your chin up, with some of the happiest pictures I could find. Enjoy!

Failure is inevitable...and ok.
jim presents Don’t Be Afraid To Fail posted at Blueprint for Financial Prosperity.

Smiles Make Money
Jack Schmidt presents Only Optimists Get the Fat Checks posted at SectorMatic Money Journal.

Money & Relationships - 'Nuff Said
Miss M presents Which is Worse – Financial or Physical Infidelity? posted at M is for Money.

vh presents How much financial help to give a family member? posted at Funny about Money.

New Baby = 529
PT presents The Most Effective College Savings Plan? The 529? posted at PT Money.

College Do-Over
Dave Damron presents Top 9 Ways I F***** Myself Over in College posted at LifeExcursion.

Home However It May Be
DR presents 5 Ways to Calculate How Much House You Can Afford posted at The Dough Roller.

April presents Renters Insurance: Peace of Mind for Ten Bucks a Month posted at Get Rich Slowly.

Write Your Own Millionaire Story
The Smarter Wallet presents How To Be A Millionaire: Secrets To Success posted at The Smarter Wallet.

Debbie Pierce presents Take Control of Your Finances ? Success Tips I Learned from Barbara Stanny posted at Rose Goddess Blog.

Tea Party Commentary
Curt presents I Attended a Tea Party Rally this Afternoon and Here is What I Learned posted at PennyJobs.com.

Saving For Retirement Is Hard Work
Mike @ GLBL presents Thoughts about saving for retirement posted at Gather Little by Little - Personal Finance with a Christian Perspective.

Super Saver presents Adjusting for Things not Going the Way I Planned posted at My Wealth Builder.

Paul Kamp presents Bad Attitude, Las Vegas, Retirement, Caution, Risk, American International Group, Gambling Bias, Rationality posted at Don't Quit Your Day Job - Personal Finance, Economics and Investing.

Stock Market Stories
Silicon Valley Blogger presents Stock Market Trading: How To Keep Your Shirt On posted at The Digerati Life.

Death Becomes Us All
Jeff Rose presents How Much Life Insurance Do You Need For Stay At Home Mom or Parent? posted at Jeff Rose.

Squeaky Wheel Gets The Grease (BofA YouTube Lady)
Lauren Rose presents Fighting Back Against the Bank of America Video posted at No Debt Anymore .org.

Mr Credit Card presents Credit Card Issuer Bends Backward on Rate Increases posted at Ask Mr Credit Card.

Rants, Raves & Other Reviews
Sun presents ManageME 7 Review posted at Earn More Invest Wisely at The Sun's Financial Diary.

Madison presents Why Fidelity Sucks posted at My Dollar Plan.


Child Blowing Happy Bubbles courtesy of Pink Sherbert Photography

Tightwad's Week In Review - 9/26/09

by a.b.

It has been a (somewhat) pleasantly eventful week in Tightwad land. On the bad side I was sick this past week, so I didn't participate in any carnivals. (Feeling much better now, thank you.)

In really great news, I was offered a part time administrative position which will start on Monday, and I will be posting occasionally as a staff writer on Moolanomy. (Thank you very much for this opportunity, Pinyo.) I am a firm believer that life getting more hectic just means slightly better scheduling, and do not foresee this diminishing the content on Modern Tightwad.

Instead of posting individual articles this week, I'm posting the beginnings of my new blog roll. These are blogs that I truly enjoy reading and continue to find beneficial information at:

Ask Liz Weston
Blogging Away Debt
Budgets Are Sexy
Frugal Babe
Frugal Dad
Frugal For Life
Frugal Zeitgeist
Get Rich Slowly
I Pick Up Pennies
Moolanomy
Out of Debt Again
Pennywise Family
SmartSpending
Suburban Dollar
Tight Fisted Miser
Under $1000 Per Month


I know I've missed quite a few, and will add to it as time goes on. In the meantime, I know you'll love what these blogs have to offer.

Lastly, I'm hosting the Carnival of Money Stories this week, so be sure to get your submission to me by tomorrow for inclusion.

Deprioritizing Our Debt Payoff

by a.b.

There is no better feeling than paying off debt. Within the next two months, one of our credit card balances will drop to zero. I'm dropping the interest rate on another one to 1.99% via balance transfer.

When I first started blogging last year (pre-Modern Tightwad), I was determined to pay off all of our debt, as quickly as possible. I set up spreadsheets, and posted our net worth and how closely we met our budget each month; after four months, I was ready to cry.

There was so much out of our control. With the gas crisis, the value on my SUV dropped $3000 in one month, putting our car loan completely underwater. Our emergency fund wasn't stout enough, so an emergency got put on credit card. I had no idea how to celebrate small victories, how to understand that setbacks occurred. Now I don't post numbers; I may be wrong, but how quickly we get debt free, does not seem to be as important as the steps we take to get there.

What also seems to be most important, is setting attainable goals. Liz Weston wrote about downsizing your money goals last week, and it really hit me: I have no reason to feel bad about setting reasonable goals; it's the smart thing to do.

I've felt guilty about this because it seems contrary to what I should want. I should want to be debt free as quickly as possible. I should want to move mountains to get there. But I don't. What I really want is to show continued progress without giving myself an aneurysm. I don't want to spend certain vital years postponing my life as a continued punishment for mistakes I made as a kid. What if I postponed having a child because I wanted to get rid of credit card debt, and it took so long I lost the ability to conceive?

Being debt free will be nice, and I will make a concerted effort over the next two years to rid myself of toxic debt, but I will no longer postpone saving for our future/retirement, or starting our future, just to scream "debt free."

What are my current goals?
  1. I would like to have credit utilization rate below 20% by the time I'm 30 (in two years).
  2. I would like to finish an ebook that I have in progress by the beginning of next year.
  3. I would like to go to Hawaii for our five year anniversary (next year).

None of these are outside of the realm of possibility. In fact, even if I have a couple of serious setbacks, my goals are still attainable. Have you changed any of your goals lately?

Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 6: Automate Your Frugality

by a.b.

Now that you've made a life-altering decision, and capitalized on momentum to make huge changes, it's time to put your new life on auto-pilot.

If you have to revisit these new frugal decisions everyday, you might stop making them, or give up, or cheat. First, set up an online bank account with sub-accounts. I like ING Direct, but there are banks giving somewhat better rates right now. Did you know that your direct deposit can be set up to send your money to more than one account?

Title your new account(s) with the name of your goal. It might say Debt Repayment, Hawaii Trip, Emergency Fund, or maybe all three. After carving your expense sheet in Step 2, you should know how much you're new lifestyle will be saving you. Have the difference between your income, and the money that you're saving dumped automatically into your new account(s) with a little cushion left in your main account for any fees due to poor math. You can also set up an automatic transfer to make sure that the money you want dedicated to each account goes there. This gives you a visual process to see how you're attaining your goals.

What else can you automate? You can use gift cards to preset your monthly grocery spending or to give yourself a Starbucks budget. Using automatic bill-pay can take the stress out of late payments and fees. You can automate your charitable contributions with a monthly transfer. The more you put on auto-pilot, the less choices you will change.

You may also have to revise some personal automation. In Sacramento, CA (where I grew up) there is a rather large shopping area right in the middle of town called Howe 'Bout Arden with a Nordstrom Rack as an anchor. It would seem that every time I drove by, which was quite often due to the central location, I ended up in Nordstrom Rack. Don't get me wrong; I love the Rack and got a lot of deals. However, this compulsive drive-by did create a mound of unnecessary receipts.

I had to change my driving routine to make sure I stopped buying things I didn't need. Do you see the sign that says Nordstrom's Half Yearly Sale and suddenly remember that you needed something? Don't drive near the mall. Contrary to yuppie opinion, did you know that Whole Foods is not the only place to get organic foods? Do you "stop by" Whole Foods because it's "on the way" when Safeway could just as easily be? Seriously, my mother spent $300 one month "stopping by" Trader Joe's.

Sometimes it's the choices you don't even think about, the subtly ingrained habits that will sabotage your new progress. Put as much as you can on a fresh auto-pilot so that you can enjoy the fruits of your new choices.

Tightwad's Week In Review - 09/19/09

As a new highlight, we're going to start linking to some of the internet's best frugality and money-saving articles around the blogiverse. If you have an article you really liked, or wrote an article you think would be beneficial to the MT readers, please e-mail me at moderntightwad at gmail dot com, or contact me on twitter at @moderntightwad.

Resonating the most with me this week was Liz Weston's article on downsizing your goals. While I would like to be debt free tomorrow, it's not going to happen. Convincing myself otherwise would not only be unrealistic, but would do me a disservice by denying the progress I've made.

The Pennywise Family kicks off their $1 Dinners with "Chili Spuds." This actually sounds like one of my favorite treats from Memphis BBQ in Las Vegas. Of course this version is much more frugal, and without the side of indigestion. :)

Donna Freedman reminds us all to negotiate on everything, even asking your pharmacy for a price match. I always ask for price matches and cash discounts, and it didn't even dawn on me to apply this here.

In addition, Modern Tightwad participated in the Carnival of Personal Finance at Simply Forties, the Festival of Frugality at The Good Life on a Budget, the Money Hacks Carnival at Four Pillars, and the Carnival of Pecuniary Delights at Pecuniarities. (It was a busy week).

Tune in next week for more money hacks and frugal lessons.

Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 5: Make Small Gains Bigger

by a.b.

It's difficult to see the value in cutting back your daily Starbucks at $3 a pop, when you're facing thousands of dollars in debt. The key is in perception.

Three dollars a day is equal to $1095. That feels like it would put a dent in your goals. Even if you dropped your daily trip to every other day, or traded your tall mocha for a Pike's Place coffee, you can still make a huge monetary change.

Some bloggers put things in an hourly context, i.e. if I'm saving $10 by making my own fabric softener, and it only took me twenty minutes, that's like making $30 an hour. Wrong! It's like saving $10 over the course of many weeks. Depending on how much laundry you do, it might save you $100 a year, plus you know what goes on your families skin (which would probably be the real bonus.)

You can even package your changes together to see the big picture. If you're saving $600 a year in coffee, $100 a year in fabric softener, and $360 a year by cutting out cable TV, you've saved $1000 towards your financial goals.

How do you keep your savings from whisking away into lifestyle inflation or that random craving for a Happy Meal? I recommend paying yourself the money.

Each time you walk by the coffee shop, take the money out of your wallet that you would've spent, and put it into a special envelope. Each time you would've bought fabric softener, put the money you saved by making your own into that same envelope. Instead of having automatic billpay for your cable bill, change it to automatic deposit into your savings account, or have it automatically pay towards debt. (More on this in "Automate Your New Lifestyle.")

At the end of the week, month, or even year, that adds up to a considerable sum towards your goals. I'll illustrate it with my stepdad's change jars. Everytime he goes out, he tosses his change into a jar. He always says, "It's just change." To make a point, I rolled it all for him to be deposited, and made him guess how much was in his jar.

"Maybe $15."
"Are you sure?"
"Yeah, it's just change."
"There was $70 in your change jar."


There really are no small steps or large steps; there's only positive momentum.

So at this point, you've made a lifestyle change, and capitalized on momentum to make some really big changes while you still had the stomach and the heart for it. After you did, you took a step back and evaluated how this is working for you. Today, you're learning the value of taking small steps forward to continue on a frugal path.

See also:
Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 1: Meeting of the Mind(s)
Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 2: Know Where You've Been
Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 3: Go For Big Gains Early
Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 4: No Extremes Necessary
Frugal Bang For Your Buck: Easy Ways To Cut Expenses

Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 4: No Extremes Necessary

by a.b.

Now that you've gained some excellent momentum with big cuts, I'm going to confuse you and tell you to take a step back. Creating a frugal lifestyle is a process with necessary and dreaded introspection. While we've been working with momentum, we don't want this to create a wild extreme.

How do you like the cuts that you've made? Are they working for you? For your family? Are you feeling uncomfortable to the point that you need to reintegrate certain things you've cut?

You may have decided to cut all cable, internet, and cell phone, only to realize that you do need wireless at home and some sort of mobile communication. It's beneficial to constantly re-evaluate your position and your needs. Start considering your purchases and your cuts with the same weight.

Frugality is a lifestyle, and it's not going to work as such if you institute an existence that is uncomfortable or that you flat out can't stand. Even if you're enjoying your newfound life, jumping into extremes without consideration can start a financial version of binging and purging, expensive and disturbing.


*If you are unemployed, out of savings, heavily in debt, struggling to survive, etc., disregard this step. Extremes may be uncomfortable, but keep slashing and you'll survive. There is very little, if any, time for disillusionment or sorrow. Besides, you might find a simple life suits you.


Photo Courtesy of StarMama


Frugal Bang For Your Buck: Easy Ways To Cut Expenses

In Step 3 of Simple Steps for Frugality, we talked about getting the most bang for your frugal buck. What are the quickest ways you can slash your expenses so that you don't lose momentum? Since everyone has different spending in different categories, here are several suggestions on ways you can simplify the madness, and find extra dollars to throw at your future.

Housing

1. Rent A Room: Make sure you have a written agreement that details out responsibility, chores, etc. (I consider this to be an easy cut because once you determine that it will happen, and find or create an appropriate roommate agreement, it doesn't usually take any additional resources.)

2. Negotiate Your Rent To Market Rate or Move: If you're renewing your lease, this is a no-brainer; if your neighbor is paying a couple hundred dollars less than you are for the same apartment, you need to ask for a market rate adjustment. The worst your landlord can say is "No" and the worst (or possibly best) thing that can happen is you move. If moving can save you even $100/month, that's $1200 a year that I know you would rather have for other things.

3. Downsize Your Space: It only takes a single episode of House Hunters International to realize, at least in this country, we "need" too much space. I'm currently living with a husband and sixty pound dog in 484 sf., happily. As long as everything has it's place, I relish the fact that our water bill is $25 a month, and our electricity hovers at $55. I also have far less to clean (although that hasn't seemed to help it get done).

4. Upsize Your Space With A Roommate: When I first moved into an apartment, I lived in a one bedroom apartment by myself for $650 a month. Within six months I upgraded to a two bedroom apartment with my best friend for $850 a month. Since my share was only $425, I increased my space for less money.

Utilities

5. Eliminate Electronic Vampirism: Anything that has a light, a blink, or is plugged in unnecessarily, adds to your electric bill. Putting all of your appliances on surge protectors, or just unplugging things that aren't being used can save you watts and dollars. (FYI, lights can also interrupt your sleep patterns).

6. Turn Off The Lights: If no one's in the room, who's the light on for? Right now, I'm sitting with my laptop in a living room enjoying the wonders of.....wait for it.....NATURAL LIGHT!

7. Have A Candle Night: Candles provide a soothing (possibly romantic) environment with zero electricity usage.

8. Get Outside!: Seriously, go have a picnic, take your dog to the park, take a walk, leave the house! Just make sure you turn everything off before you leave.

9. Let Someone Else Pay The Bill: Here in Portland, it's unusual to have the severe heat wave that we had in August. I traded spending time in my friends' air conditioned house for watching their dogs. I've also spent time in the mall, the library, anywhere except my sweltering abode.

TV

10. Watch Online: Many of the shows you watch on TV, you can find online. If it's not on hulu, check out the network website.

11. Netflix: I know, there's a lot of debate as to whether or not netflix is a "frugal expense." However, the ability to watch instantly kicks it up a few notches for me. For as little as $8.99, you have access to TV shows, some on a brief delay through the season (Leverage fans anyone? Maybe Heroes?). Coupled with StarzPlay and the wide selection of movies, most of the regular and premium cable channels are replaced for me with this service at a savings of $30/month.

Internet

12. Utilize Public Internet: Find free wi-fi, use the internet at your school or library.

13. Don't Bundle "Just Because": Is it really cheaper to get cable internet, or would DSL be a better choice? (My husband the gamer, probably is shaking his head in disbelief at the thought that cable might not be a "need.")

Phone

14. VOIP: Voice over internet such as Vonage, T-Mobile@Home, can greatly reduce your monthly phone bill and eliminate the cost of long distance.

Cell Phone

15. Go Pre-Paid: A monthly contract means you pay for minutes you don't use, or may never use. I have a friend who's rolled over enough minutes to talk for a decade.

16. Toss It: While your tween may not think so, a cell phone is a still new invention. Pay phones do exist, as do call boxes on the freeway.

Groceries

17. Coupons: I know, I know, you hate cutting coupons. But with new features through companies like cellfire and direct on Safeway's website, you can load the coupons directly onto your rewards card or cell phone. You won't even hold up the line. So no more excuses.

18. Look At The Sales Flier Before You Leave: I usually check the weekly ads online so I don't incur a newspaper subscription expense. By knowing where the more expensive items are on sale I can change which store I plan on going to, and diverse our menu.

19. Have A Menu Plan: Even if you just plan your meals out for the next week, it allows you to fully utilize leftovers, take better advantage of sales, etc.

20. Don't Be Afraid To Stray From The Menu When Appropriate: I have a solid menu plan for each week, but if I stuck to that I wouldn't be able to take advantage of great deals on seafood at the butcher.

Eating Out

21. Get Happy!: Happy hour is a great way to enjoy your favorite meals at a huge discount.

22. Trade Dinner For Lunch: Lunch menus are generally cheaper than their dinner companions. The portions are also better if you're watching your waistline.

23. Turn Dinner Into Tomorrow's Lunch: Every time I go to Olive Garden, I end up too full to finish my entree...so it becomes the next day's lunch. I really don't mind as most dishes taste better after they have a day to infuse with the spices.

24. Bring Your Food With You: Sorry, I had to include the obligatory "bring your lunch to work" frugal tip. But it doesn't have to be lunch. When I was working in Corporate America, I was very good at watching the lunch dollars, but those darn vending machines drained my pocketbook. Packing my own Cheez-its would have saved me, well I once calculated they would've saved me the equivalent of two lunches a week.

25. Eat In: A potluck with friends and a movie is an excellent way to have a great group meal without the cost of restaurant service. And if you're really lucky, the payment for hosting is leftovers for the week.

Entertainment

26. Spend Time In The Park

27. Keep Track Of Free Fun: Each year museums and national parks open for a free day/weekend. Keeping track of these events can provide free quality entertainment.

Health Insurance

28. Kill Bad Habits: I know it's dumb and you probably already know, but bad habits like smoking and heavy drinking can raise your premiums. It's not worth it for your health, or your pocketbook.

29. Take Bids: You didn't know you can get bids on your health insurance. Of course you can! Oh, but you get insurance through your work. I don't care, get the quotes anyway. At one point, health insurance provided through my work cost me $100 a month, but once I added my husband, it spiked to near $250. When I checked online, buying private insurance gave us a quote of $175. It pays to check around.

Prescriptions

30. Take Advantage Of Generic Deals: Many places are offering $4 for a month's supply of generics, $9 for women's health (birth control pills). Make sure you can use a generic and that you aren't allergic to any of the inactive ingredients that often change between brand names.

31. Make Money From Your Prescription: $25 gift cards and 10% off discounts aren't uncommon for transferring your prescription.

Auto Loan

32. Check The Fine Print Before You Search: I once got stuck with a larger loan than I wanted, and more car than I needed because of the constraints of the loan. (Must be newer than XXXX, must be a minimum amount, yadayadayada). I realized in hindsight that I could've just taken a smaller personal loan, bought a smaller car, and had it paid off by the time I figured my mistake.

33. Don't Be Afraid To Refinance: If it cuts your interest rate, go for it! Many people can't because their car is "underwater" the moment they drive it off the lot, but you can find out if your vehicle would qualify for refinancing by calling your bank or credit union, before you apply.

Auto Insurance

34. Be Conscious Of Deductibles: If dropping you from a $1000 deductible to a $500 deductible will increase your premium $50 a month, you're not making a wise decision. You could bank the money and have $100 additional at the end of the year.

35. Get Quotes Through Associations: Many group associations, unions, etc. offer better deals on insurance. It never hurts to get a quote.

36. Get Quotes Regularly: Insurance is not like a credit report; you don't get dinged for checking your rates. Since I have a six month policy, I get insurance quotes every six months. I learned my lesson when I found that my current insurance policy was rewarding my loyalty with monthly premiums that were $100 more than their competitors.

Gas

37. Utilize Public Transportation When Appropriate: If you have a decent public transit system, use it! In PDX we even have something called "Fareless Square" that offers free public transportation in the downtown district. When you add gas and parking fees, it starts to add up.

Student Loans

38. Consolidate!: You can do it online, it generally reduces your interest rates and certainly streamlines the payment process.

39. Community Service: For teaching, or participating in government programs, a portion or all or your loans can be forgiven.

Wasted Cash

40. Leave Your ATM Card At Home: If you don't have your ATM, your less likely to use it on the go, and less likely to have these random cash receipts with no idea what it was spent on.

Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 3: Go For Big Gains Early

by a.b.

Don't worry. The most brutal part is over. You had, as my father would say, a "come to Jesus" moment and decided to make some positive changes in your life, and involved your financial partners. You took a long (hopefully not too painful) look at where you currently are. Now, we're getting down to business, and hopefully having a little fun. Because freeing up cash is fun, right? (Tell me that I'm not the only one that thinks so!)

Now, I want you to capitalize on the momentum you've built, and be able to see the benefits quickly. The idea in Step 3 is to go for big gains, determining where you will get the most value for your time. Next to each category in your monthly spending allocation from Step 2, write down the percentage each category comprises of total outgo.

Housing is usually the largest chunk, with surprising room for negotiation. Can you take on a roommate? Can you downsize? Can you upsize with a roommate? When I first moved out on my own, I was living in a one bedroom apartment for $650 a month; I got a two bedroom apartment with my friend for $850, dropping my share by $225 a month!

Can you negotiate your current situation? In our apartment complex, the market rate dropped by $165 for the apartment we have (luckily before we moved in). Check the market rate and any advertised specials before you renew your lease; frankly, start checking in the couple months beforehand. Search on craigslist, in apartment guides, online, and in the newspaper for any specials in your neighborhood. An individual manager and owner may have more room to negotiate than a larger company, but it never hurts to ask. Moving might be a hassle, but if it saves you a couple hundred a month over a long lease it might be worth it.

Mortgage holders, before you dismiss the roommate concept, find out what the going rate is in your neighborhood. If taking on two roommates means your payment gets cut to a third, it might be worth it considering you can add certain contingencies as part of the lease for your comfort. (Smoking, drugs, pets, visitors after certain hours, eco-friendly cleaning products even!)

There really are many ways to approach a situation once you open up to a possibility. I have a friend right now living on an organic farm in exchange for a space to live!

One last guideline on housing: Don't take on more space than you need. Extra space is merely more room to put stuff, more space to clean, and more space to spend money heating and cooling.

If you're nervous about making some of these changes do a visualization exercise. Close your eyes and invision the worst case scenario, and the best case scenario. Open your eyes and decide what you can do. (But don't take the opportunity to pull an "I can't!" just because you're afraid. Extend yourself and you will be amazed and proud.) Can you see yourself with a roommate? Can you see yourself cooking an extra night a week? Can you see yourself without Top Gear on BBC? or Ninja Warrior on G4TV?

How you get the biggest bang from your buck will be based on how your categories lie. (For more suggestions on the various categories, check out "Frugal Bang for Your Buck: Easy Ways To Cut Expenses.")

Now we look at the page that lists your total debts and this is what we do:
  1. Call each and every credit card account and ask for an interest rate reduction. Seriously. If they say no, tell them you would love to keep your business with them, but the interest rate is prohibitive and may force you to transfer your balance elsewhsere. Are they sure they cannot help you? If they still say no, say, "Okay, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there anything else that you can do to retain a loyal customer?" Last time I did this, I didn't get the reduction, but I got an extra 2500 airline miles (Hawaii here I come.)
  2. Have you consolidated your student loans? Remember, while a student loan can be put into forbearance or deferment in cases of financial hardship, it cannot be bankrupted. It will follow you if you ignore it.
  3. If you have greatly improved your credit since it's inception, can you refinance your auto loan? See how much the refinance will save you over the length of the loan, and weigh it against the hassle.
  4. Do you have written payment plans signed for your personal loans? It is rare that any of us haven't owed someone money at some point, even if it's just $5. It's generally a very bad idea. Make sure you have a written agreement between yourself and the other party, detailing out how you intend to pay, and sticking to it. Whatever you do, don't be that person who flakes on a friend because you think they'll still love you after you shove their kindness and goodwill back in their face.
For little time invested, you can make some big strides on this step. Acknowledge your achievements as you will need them when you have a $5 savings day instead of a $500 savings day.

When you go for big gains, you are tackling the tasks that save you the most money in the short and long term. Cutting interest rates and cutting your housing or dining costs will all get you to financial freedom faster.

See also:
Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 1: Meeting of the Mind(s)
Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 2: Know Where You've Been

Photo Courtesy of ground.zero

Simple Steps to Frugality: Step 2: Know Where You've Been

by a.b.

The saying goes: "To know where you're going, you have to know where you've been." In Step 1, you decided something isn't right in your life. You set a goal, a reason why you want financial freedom, you committed, and you involved the relevant people in your life. Now comes the painful part: financial and physical inventory.

Many personal finance bloggers and experts will tell you to wait over the next month, collect all of this data, and then take inventory. No way! First off, you've lit a fire under your own butt and I want to take advantage of the momentum. Secondly, if you know you're being watched (even by yourself) you will unintentionally cheat. I don't want you to look at your data at the end of next month and say, "Gee, I'm not doing as bad as I thought." I want you to look at your situation right now, honestly, and frankly, and say, "Crap, I didn't realize I was spending that much on X, Y, or maybe even Z."

So, right now, go and get all of your bills, receipts, and statements from the past month (including ATM receipts, pay stubs, and deposit slips if possible). At the moment, we're looking at total numbers, so take a spreadsheet, and put the following categories at the top:
  • Housing (Rent or Mortgage, Applicable Insurance & Taxes)
  • Utilities (Electricity, Gas, Water, Sewer, Trash)
  • TV
  • Internet
  • Phone
  • Cell Phone
  • Groceries
  • Eating Out
  • Entertainment (Netflix, Movie Tickets)
  • Medical (Health Insurance, Prescriptions)
  • Auto (Loan, Insurance, Gas)
  • Student Loans
  • Credit Card Payments
  • Charitable Contributions
  • Wasted Cash
Start going through your receipts and statements, noting what you spend each month under the appropriate categories. ATM receipts and Less Cash Received notations on deposit slips* with no corresponding purchase receipt, get noted as "Wasted Cash." Be careful not to mark down the same purchase from a receipt and your statement. Now the painful part: total the columns. This is your current monthly spending allocations.

On another page, write down your total debts: each student loan, auto loan, and credit card total, the accompanying interest rates, and the monthly payment. This is your debt inventory.

Lastly, go through your house room by room, listing what you own, down to how many pairs of socks. How many times have you bought something, only to come home and realize you had two already? While you are going through your possessions, note if anything is getting worn and in need of upcoming replacement.

After completing this step, you will know what you're spending your money on each month. You will know how much you owe, you will know what you have, and what you will need shortly. This means you have a place to go from. Think of this as ground zero for your new life.


*This information can be generally be determined by taking your pay stub minus your deposit amount.

Simple Steps To Frugality: Step 1: Meeting of the Mind(s)

by a.b.

So you've decided your life needs to change. You're tired of taking orders from your boss who failed up the corporate ladder, but your credit card payments force you to stay. You dream of a life of freedom, traveling the world to new and exotic places, but don't see how you could afford to. You just don't want to deal with all of the complications around you. It sounds like you're craving some financial freedom.

The first step is probably the hardest. You have to decide what you want and make a commitment to it internally, a Meeting of the Mind that creates harmony of thought and action.

First, find your "why." You won't stick to a lifestyle change unless there's a darn good reason. In AA they call it "admitting you have a problem," and that's a perfect fit. Do any of the following apply to you?
  • I have a problem working for other people. I don't like corporate structure, and have found that it doesn't like me too much either.
  • I have a problem with credit card debt. I don't want to spend the rest of my life paying interest on a series of $20 purchases because I didn't "get it" at the time.
  • I have a problem taking care of other people before I take care of my own household. I end up loaning cash to my friends, and putting my groceries on a credit card.
  • I have a problem discerning which resources I should be using, so I don't do anything and my money just vanishes by the end of the month.
  • I have a problem with [fill in the blank] that's keeping me from achieving my goals.
I bet that last one got you. The truth is financial freedom isn't as complicated as people make it out to be; it's a combination of increasing income and reducing expenses. (Granted, many people have circumstances such as disability or long term care of a loved one that can deter them from escaping to Tahiti even if they did get their finances under control, but they still might be able to obtain some peace from taking these Simple Steps to Frugality.)

Frugality is the process of reducing expenses. What are the benefits? If you reduce expenses you can change, and eventually control, the direction your money flows. Instead of paying for that premium cable package you can pay off your credit card faster. Once you pay off your credit card, instead of paying interest, you can start saving for emergencies, travel, or even retirement.

"But I like my premium channels!" you say. As a society we over-complicate the difference between a need and a want. If you work a 40 hour week and sleep 8 hours a day, how many hours can you really watch those premium channels. Would you be able to stop working overtime if your expenses were less? Much of the long term process of frugality is determining what you really can live without, which is dependent on personal circumstances, geography, etc. However, what you are willing to give up will be indicative of how committed you are. These steps are simple, but they force you to take a look at what you need, and are not for the faint of heart.

Secondly, once you've made your commitment, you need to involve the people directly involved in your life in the decision-making process, especially your financial partners (spouse, partner, older children). This can also apply to a roommate situation. I don't want you cutting off the cable bill only to wake up with three sets of angry eyes staring at you in bed. The most important part of this stage is clear and concise communication:

Bad Example:
Person A: Hey, I want to cut our cable so that we can cut down our credit card bill.

Person B: Sounds great.

What went wrong here? There are no guarantees these two people are on the same page. Person B might be thinking: "Great! If we drop our credit card bill, there will be enough room on it for us to buy XYZ."

Good Example:
Person A: Hey, I've been thinking about our future. I worry that we aren't setting enough aside to enjoy each other's company, and I start to wonder what we're working so hard for. I'd like to start making some changes, like cutting the cable bill for starters, or eating out less, in order to pay down our credit card bill. After that's paid off, I'd like to take an out-of-pocket trip together, and start saving for our retirement. What do you think?

Person B: I see what you are saying. I'm okay with cutting the cable bill, but I don't want to give up our Friday night dinners, because we really enjoy them and it's a good chance to talk.

Here, Person A said what (s)he wanted, why (s)he wanted to do it, and created a clear plan with both short and long term goals. Person B showed (s)he understood what Person A was asking and set clear boundaries of comfort.

This is just the first part of a negotiation process, but if you don't have a Meeting of the Minds with your financial partners, you are setting yourself up for bitterness and perceived sabotage. A solid next step might be Person A saying: Okay, I get that Friday night dinners are important for us. Could we do a Saturday lunch instead? Or a Friday happy hour? We'd still get the same benefits at a lesser cost.

So in short: Make sure you know why you want to make a change, that you are committed to a different life, and that your family and/or immediate financial partners are on board, and on the same page. If you're not sure what you want to do, or if your partner isn't sure what's going on, start with small compromises, lots of communication, and negotiate.


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Personal Finance and The Passing of Time

by a.b.

Thank you to Liz Weston for interviewing me for her piece on financial dread. I guess I'm no longer even semi-anonymous (no worries), but I figure in a week no one will remember my name anyway. Heck, I can hardly remember it now.

Some of the commenters had some great points and questions, so I thought I would put everything else out there:

yclept brought out that the key is if you don't have cash, you don't buy. Well, yes, but sometimes you do the best you can once you've gotten into the situation. When I wasn't paying it off every month, I was going against my better judgement, what I'd been taught; it was just a bad situation. I did better when I figured it out.

tazo24 had a host of questions (Hope this answers them, if you have any others, let me know):
  • How much did it actually cost me in fees? The unfortunate thing is I would've never been over my limit if I'd canceled the credit protection service. I estimate I paid at least $600 in credit protection fees; I also paid $120 in late fees, and about $400 in overlimit fees. Considering I only had a $3000 balance, this was ridiculous.
  • How many points were shaved off my credit score? I actually don't know how many were shaved due to my own stupidity. I know I checked it right after I got married (2003) when we got an apartment and I believe it was at 570. A year later after just making payments regularly, it was in the 630s. Today,it's around 720, and I couldn't be happier.
  • How hard does it get before you can't get an apartment or job? I'm honestly nervous now that I'm not semi-anonymous that my past mistakes could effect me getting a job, but I'm in a field that's known for flaky people, and they don't do financial background checks. I've also never held a cash-handling position. A co-worker of mine in Las Vegas was denied employment in a large casino because of a bankruptcy, in a non-cash handling position even. Regarding an apartment, I've had to pay higher deposits before, but I've never been denied due to my credit history.
  • How much does insurance go up when you score drops? I was paying $250 a month for insurance, but I'm not sure how much of that was because I was under 25, and how much was because of my score, and how much was because I was accident prone.
  • What has been the actual impact? Well, I still can't buy a house yet, and since my husband and I are still paying off student loans and remaining credit card debt, I don't think we'll be able to start a family any time soon, if at all. In the long run, I'm actually not upset that I went through this, because I learned the hard way, and I learned faster. I would hate to have made these mistakes at 45 and had it jeopardize my retirement.
  • Then if she had done 1 thing at the beginning - what would the result have been? The disturbing thing is there are several "one thing"s I should have done. If I had dropped the credit protection service, I wouldn't have gone over my credit limit, and would have saved $1000 in fees. If I had called my credit card company and asked for them to work with me when I started to get scared, I would've been ahead of the game. If I had decided not to go back to school, and just kept working, I would've been debt free a long time ago.
beenthereinpa noted that doing a balance transfer to reduce your debt is nearly impossible once you're in the hole. I agree, but I don't generally get a new card to transfer a balance. Most of the transfers I make are where I get an offer on a card I already have due to a history of on-time payments. Regarding your situation with the bank, I would have called them and argued that since they advertise the convenience of 24 hour online banking, you were under the impression that you could make payments 24 hours a day and they would be applied that day. It never hurts to get a little cranky when the bank's being sneaky.

FrEddddd is appalled by the lack of financial education that young ones receive. I think I did receive a strong financial education, but the education I received is no longer applicable today.

What I can remember is how much personal finance has changed with the passing of time. I'm still a young punk (not even thirty), but I remember a much different world in respects to credit and debit. For example:
  • Twenty years ago, my dad had two credit cards, a Diners Club, and a VISA for emergencies. In 2005, according to CNN Money, "The average number of bank cards per cardholding household is 19.3 -- typically eight bank cards, eight retail cards and three debit cards."
  • Ten years ago, before my father passed away he decided to teach me about real estate transactions, at a "generous 10%."
  • When I was looking at my first apartment at 21 (almost seven years ago), I was not asked for a FICO score; I was asked to show a history of on-time payments and consistent income, or I needed a co-signer.
  • For the average person, up until a few years ago online banking didn't exist.
The financial world has been changing. I feel very blessed that I've overall been getting smarter, even though I still do dumb things. It disturbs me that personal finance changes faster than people can keep up. In many cases it comes in the guise of new products, sales pushed on a consumer as a need instead of a waste. One day, when I'm debt free, I will live my life as if credit doesn't exist, and I will sleep better every night.

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