Mortgage Debt Wiped Out!

by a.b.

In two separate cases in the past two months, borrowers have had their mortgages wiped out by judges that are taking a stand against what they see as terrible injustice.

Issue 1: Can't Prove Claim

The last decades' habit of parceling portions of mortgages into mortgage-backed securities is coming back to bite the banks in a big way. Since so many groups own these mortgages, and oftentimes paperwork might not have been accurately completed, it's nearly impossible to figure out who owns what. It's been hurting borrowers because many banks aren't even authorized to negotiate for a mortgage modification on the very loans they are servicing. Thankfully, it's finally hurting the banks as well.

According to the New York Times, on October 9th, a federal bankruptcy court hurled a "smackdown" at a lender that failed to produce the appropriate documentation for their foreclosure claim. Judge Drain wiped out the more than $461,000 claim.

Good for him! It is not that I don't believe in paying debt. To the contrary, I believe very strongly in personal accountability for all. If I went into a court claiming that my neighbor owed me money, the court would require more than just my word, as it should be for foreclosure proceedings. The fact that banks can issue foreclosure proceedings and damage someone's credit record without the proof to back it up makes me livid! In my book, the lender is lucky that the Judge just wiped out the debt and didn't issue additional punitive damages for filing a false claim.

Issue 2: Refusal to Cooperate

One of the most difficult things I have seen has been the underhanded practices of mortgage lenders and their absolute refusal to cooperate with (in fact, their attempt to profit from) people who are trying to stay in their homes. My folks are seeking a mortgage modification, and actually received a phone call from the lender to discuss the status of their mortgage. They were offered a forbearance: a six month period that they could pay their mortgage at half price "until they could work out a modification." My family is lucky that my mother is a meticulous pit bull when it comes to legal documents.

If they had signed that and sent it back to the lender, they would have been stripped of all of their legal rights in the foreclosure process. Nevada requires the lender to send a mediator out to work with the homeowner before a foreclosure can be completed. The paperwork stripped them of their right to have an attorney or moderator handle their request, put the lender under "no obligation" to look for a potential solution to the claim, and removed any right for the homeowner to sue the lender for any wrongdoing. Needless to say they didn't sign, but I shudder for anyone who did.

It turns out the public isn't the only one that frustrated with some lenders tactics with homeowners. The New York post reported:

"(Judge) Spinner excoriated OneWest for repeatedly refusing to work out a deal, for misleading him about the dollar amounts at stake in the case, and for its treatment of the couple over months of hearings.

OneWest's conduct was ''inequitable, unconscionable, vexatious and opprobrious,' Spinner wrote.

He canceled the debt because the bank 'must be appropriately sanctioned so as to deter it from imposing further mortifying abuse against [the couple].'

It is odd to think that in some cases the banks would rather sit with empty homes, than make any sort of agreement with a homeowner. The answer, it would seem, comes down to the balance sheet. A property is an asset; a homeowner is a liability. Hopefully this decision will get banks to come to the table with homeowners, get them to change their view of the best way to run their business.

We certainly have not seen the end of the mortgage meltdown. Lenders and homeowners will continue to be at odds as neither has any concern in the other's interest. However, sometimes the little guy needs to feel a victory, sometimes even two.

I Am So Cheap.....I reuse tape.

by a.b.

I know you think it can't be done, but yes, I reused packing tape. When we moved into our apartment, we discovered that our screen door doesn't shut all the way, leaving an inch gap towards the top. Considering that it's only reason for existing is to keep out bugs and (gasp) spiders, this was a bit of an issue for me. Having also freshly moved, there weren't a lot of resources available.

Mr. MT spotted some leftover tape at the top of the door near the jam. One thing we had quite a bit of was packing tape; however it was currently holding all of boxes together and not very useful, or was it?

Several of the containers we used for shipping were sterilite plastic containers. Our five-drawer unit had packing tape holding each side of the drawers closed. Upon unpeeling it I discovered the tape didn't lose its sticky on the plastic, and promptly used it to close the screen door. Over the last six months, as the tape wears off, I replace it with the next tape from the door. I'm finally down to my last drawer, which means I might actually have to go buy tape, but it was nice to look at a problem, find a reusable resource that might have otherwise been discarded, and fix it.

Apparently I am cheaper than I thought. So what about you, are there ways you are so cheap people can't believe it?

When I Wasn't Looking....

I hit 10,000 visitors! I know that's not a big deal to some bloggers out there, but this was really exciting. Thank you all to your support for making this possible.

a.b.

Tightwad Travel Tips

by a.b.

The whisper silence on my blog currently disguises the crazed insane screams of a wedding in progress. Mr. B is a groomsman so off we go to our friend's wedding.

It's difficult to keep last minute travel expenses low, but Mr. B and I have figured a few tricks that make it a little more cost effective.

1. Stay in a "residence" hotel. Hotels with full kitchens easily make up for the cost difference by the meal savings. The hotel we're staying in has a bigger kitchen than we have at home.

2. Check parking costs. While our hotel has free parking, we've seen some that have upwards or $26-29 each night. Don't get sideswiped by this common additional fee.

3. Free breakfast ftw. Even if it's a continental breakfast, having all of your morning meal/snack covered can be a great cost saver.

4. Take advantage of free wi-fi or computer services. Not all hotels have wi-fi or free wi-fi throughout, but many offer guest computers or free wi-fi in the lobby. Take advantage of the ones that do, but remember not to utilize personal information or passwords on these unsecured networks.

Granted, there is a lot more that can be done, but this is what Mr. B and I do to cut costs on unplanned travel. What do you do?

Do We Teach Children Debt?

by a.b.

When I went to Target tonight, I thought I was just picking up dog food and toilet paper. Instead, I had the chance to observe a parent unwittingly teaching their child about money.

I was in the lamp section, looking for a desk lamp to light the only dark corner in our studio; coincidentally it's the space I need to study in right now. A young girl who appeared to be between six and eight, ran up to a chandelier style light and turned to her mother.
"I like this one. How much is it?"
"It's $25. That means you'll owe me $5."
In one sentence I knew that this child was being taught that budgets are flexible and personal debt is acceptable. It left me feeling disquieted. Yes, I know this parental interaction was none of my business, but I think how we teach the next generation about debt will have a drastic effect on our future.

Some parents argue that they need to teach children about debt as a survival tool. In short, it is better for them to teach their children about responsibly paying off debt because it's inevitable. They will buy a car, a house, go to college, and it's very difficult to do these things without debt. It is better to teach them at a young age that if they don't pay things back as agreed, there are punishments.

The opposing side argues that while it is difficult to do these things without taking on debt, it is not impossible. Teaching children about debt at a young age makes them think that overspending is okay.

I think the best thing you can teach your child is that they can't buy something they don't have the money for.

So if the mother had said, "You only have $20, you can't afford that," what's the worst thing that could have happened? It's not like there weren't three dozen other lamps there.

Another option would have been the saying, "You only have $20 now, but you'll have $25 next week. We can come back and buy it then."

She could have even said, "I'm going to buy this lamp, and when you have $25, you can buy it from me," so she didn't have to make the trip back to Target in the holiday shopping season.

Any one of these options would have worked, and taught the lesson that debt isn't acceptable. In all fairness, the mother did try to steer the daughter to a floor lamp in her budget, but it looked like the damage was done. The little girl kept looking back at the chandelier lamp, and you could see in the corner of her eye how easy it is to "owe mom."

I am not a mom, but I hope when I am, I can teach my child to learn from my financial mistakes. I want my child to think that debt is not acceptable, that being stuck paying off debt is not a way to live, and the only way to make sure that happens, is to never take it on.

Chocolate Mousse and Consumerism

by a.b.

Tonight, some friends invited us to Papa Haydn's in NW Portland for an evening of decadent desserts. I ordered the Chocolate Cube, which is dark chocolate mousse, in dark chocolate shell, with vanilla ice cream on top. It was delightful, but so rich that I took half of it home for fear I wouldn't leave the bathroom for a week.

With a giant list of desserts, why did I pick this one, my friends asked. Chocolate mousse is my favorite dessert. It was my favorite treat when I was a little girl, and one bite instantly takes me back to when my Dad was alive, and we'd be in Monterey or San Francisco for a nice dinner, that always ended with chocolate mousse.

I like it enough I learned how to make it. Every year I used to make a batch and deliver it to all of my friends, one layer of dark chocolate mousse, a layer of toffee bits, a layer of white chocolate mousse, and a raspberry or strawberry drizzle. I haven't made it in eight years; it takes two days to make, at minimum.

One of my friends (Mr. Frugal Genius) said that he didn't get the vanilla creme brulee because he knows how to make it, makes it at home regularly, and won't spend $7.00 on something he could easily do himself.

Another friend responded, "That's the trouble. You can make almost anything, even a house, if you have the time. It's deciding whether the time and effort you have to put into it is worth it compared to a purchase."

For me, it is no longer worth it to spend two days making one dessert. There aren't enough people in my life who would enjoy it. However, every day since we've taken control of our finances we weigh the pros and cons of our purchases:
  • Should I buy this loaf of bread or bake one?
  • Do I have time to cook today or should we use a "night out?"
  • Is the time I'm going to spend on this worth the time away from my family?
I still love chocolate mousse as a treat. It's become much more rare since I don't make it anymore, but that's okay. A trip down memory lane doesn't need to happen every night.