Saving Money Can Mean Giving Modern Pitches and Scams the Heave-Ho

This is a guest post from Bryan Sayers. Mr. Sayers is with Forex Fraud, a site dedicated to introducing people to Forex, and keeping them from falling victim to Forex scams.

One of the most difficult things to do, especially during these tough economic times, is to save your savings, AFTER you have saved them. It is not enough to get your household budget in order and to set aside 10% of every paycheck in a savings plan. The real psychological difficulty begins after you amass a nice little mound of cash. Televised commercials, Internet ads and salesmen galore will tempt you like never before to buy or invest in their respective wares.

Yes, the sirens of temptation will beckon, but only you can protect your plan for financial security. You should be taking a class on how to manage your investments, but perhaps, a quick update on the pitfalls that might come your way is the best advice for the moment. Marketing and investment scams are very real, some even legitimate, but awareness is the first step toward prevention for all of these.

The simple ones are the advertising approaches you see every day. You have spurned these offers before, so just repeat your iron will when confronted by:
  • Ads that suggest you buy a new car every year;
  • Salesmen who refuse to negotiate on significant purchases;
  • Salesmen who resist your attempt to comparison shop;
  • Ads for brand names unless the quality is worth the price;
  • Any ad that says you must have the latest electronic anything.

Investment scams are a bit more devious in their design. You must me more than skeptical to avoid these. Whether in stocks, bonds, commodities or forex investment, each of these schemes will be tailored to fit your investment vehicle of choice:
  • High Yield Investment Program: The blinking Internet ads promise outrageous returns with little risk to draw in consumers whose greed exceeds their caution. High leverage or margin, the ability to borrow from the broker, also promises high returns, but it increases the ability of the unscrupulous broker to steal your money through manipulation. As always, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is;
  • Unsolicited Approaches: Beware of emails, phone calls, or mailers providing tips or investment opportunities. “Ponzi” and “Pump-and-Dump” schemes are prevalent in this category. Crooks have access to mailing lists and understand how to ply their trade in cyberspace. Be very careful, ask questions about how they got your name, determine where and who they are, and never give your personal identity information out freely;
  • High Pressure Sales Efforts: All kinds of sales tactics are employed to sell brokerage services, offshore forex schemes, software solutions, trading strategies, automated robot traders, and nearly anything that has “invest” in its name. Anything offshore is a warning sign. Trying to press your legal rights in a foreign jurisdiction is a case in futility. Products that claim to have the “secret” deserve your skepticism. If the salesman demands urgency when it comes to payment options, hold onto your wallet or checkbook and walk the other way!
Although most people never expect to be defrauded, crooks have a unique way of finding people that have ample savings, just received large sums of money or believe in getting rich with very little effort on their part. Department of Justice studies also confirm that people with a college degree or just some college are the most susceptible when it comes to the con artist and his tricks.

Awareness is the first step in stopping legitimate and illegitimate fraud in its tracks. Most scams focus on the “sell.” Healthy skepticism is a must. Be alert, be cautious, and be smart!

Festival of Frugality #239: Commandments of Frugality

It's easy to become frugal if you follow the steps and keep thy commandments. Don't forget: the tightwads will smite you if you fall off the path.

Commandment #1: Cherish Thy Budget.

Moneyed Blogger presents How To Make A Budget And Stick To It posted at MoneyedUP. You can't save money if you don't know where you're spending it.

Commandment #2: Hold Onto Thy Funds.

Reasonable provides a very succinct breakdown of your W-4 with W-4 Check-Up posted at Richly Reasonable - Money, Saving, Living, Playing.

PT schools us in the right way to complain with How to Complain and Get Your Money’s Worth posted at PT Money. It really is an art form, especially for PT.

vh makes me miss the days of my childhood when I used to come home from school and jump directly in the pool with Hot and Muggy! posted at Funny about Money. Even running through a sprinkler is a great way to stay cool when the weather stays hot.

Jason presents The 10-Step Saving Action Plan posted at Live Real, Now. He is the man with a plan.

Craig Ford presents Student Loan Debt Forgiveness | For Ministers & Non-Profit Workers posted at Money Help For Christians. There are more and more avenues for loan forgiveness, and it would be silly not to explore them all.

Commandment #3: Endeavor To Spend Wisely, If One Must Spend At All.

FMF presents Save Money by Buying on Specific Days of the Week posted at Free Money Finance. Who knew Thursdays were the best time to go clothes shopping?

J. Money presents Rent vs. Buy: Tools, Textbooks, Caskets? posted at Budgets Are Sexy. Rent-a-casket? Definitely grounds for cremation!

Tom @ Canadian Finance Blog presents Calculating Fuel Economy posted at Canadian Finance Blog. Whether you calculate kilometres and litres or miles and gallons, the math is still the same. Keep in mind, it not only helps you track your expenses, but a observing a drastic change in fuel consumption can help you identify a repair before it becomes major.

Paul Williams presents The Value of Quality Cookware posted at Provident Planning. In the Modern Tightwad house kitchen items are a major source of splurge, but we found that having nice cookware means we like cooking more, keeping overall food bills down.

There isn't a time in my life that I don't look back on and wish I was more frugal, then when I was going to school MD presents Frugality and Focus in Education posted at studenomics.com.

Neal Frankle presents How To Get Senior Term Life Insurance Cheap posted at Wealth Pilgrim. There are certain items that are more difficult to obtain based on your age. Neal breaks down how to obtain term life insurance as it gets harder.

Commandment #4: Ask For Help When In Need.

Leave Debt Behind.com presents A Money Coach Can Fix Your Finances posted at Leave Debt Behind. There's nothing wront with asking for assistance.

MoneyNing presents These 7 Simple Money Tips Can Make All Your Dreams Come True posted at Money Ning.

Commandment #5: Don't Compromise Thy Good Standards.

Briana Ford presents When Being Frugal is Bad posted at Go Banking Rates. Being frugal (or a tightwad) does not mean you act without ethics. You should always be able to look yourself in the mirror, or your kids in the eye when you save money.


Editor's Note: Thank you for your participation in this carnival, both reading, and submitting. Frugality is not dead, but for some people it is waning. I was a little surprised at the number of articles submitted (not the good surprised, either). Next week the series goes to Wealth Informatics. Do me a favor and overwhelm her with great articles about frugality.

Photo Courtesy of Steve Snodgrass.

My Coupons Got Social

So I'm a little critical of the concept of social buying. Sites like Groupon, Living Social, Tippr, and all of the others I haven't stumbled on yet, offer the ability to get great deals on a variety of local deals. There are some caveats with this craze.

1. Don't buy something you wouldn't normally. If you are not careful this is just another form of peer pressure to buy things you don't need, but look cool. You might think, "There are 400 people signing up for this deal, it must be good!" even though the chances of you going rock climbing are severely diminished by your desire to keep both feet on the ground.

2. Read the fine print. You may not be able to use the deal the way you think. If you only visit a particular restaurant on happy hour, prepare for already special pricing to be extremely discounted.

3. Do the math (and visit the company website). So let's say you buy a massage from social buying site, with 400 other people. When you go to the website to schedule your appointment, you find out that only 3 therapists in the spa accept your coupon. You might have to wait well over a month to schedule your appointment.

Even though there are some potential negatives, I am not immune from social buying. One of my very favorite local bars had a coupon on a social buying site. I get $20 worth of food and drink for $10, for a place I would already go to. I was excited.

Social buying can have a very positive impact for both consumers and providers, as long as it doesn't just become a new way to "keep up with the Jones's."

I'm a Tightwad, Not a Jerk

Apparently Reader's Digest thinks I'm an ass. In May, they did an article and survey entitled Frugal or Tightwad? As a society we have this image of a tightwad as some geriatric jerk, huddled in a homemade shanty, figuring out how he can screw the Care Bears out of Christmas, all because he wasn't hugged enough as a child; now every time he pays a penny out of his misshapen hands, it destroys what's left us his hollow soul, as money is all he has left.

Seriously, if that's what you truly believe, you need a lobotomy. A tightwad, by definition, is tight with their wad/wallet! (Stop giggling, please.) Tightwads identify places where they don't have to spend, where as frugalists work to identify places they can save. In truth, both philosophies must work together for a fiscally sensible process. There is no reason to spend money you don't have to, and there is no reason to spend more money than you have to.

I get tired of this idea that to be a thrifty person, you have to be unethical or disloyal. Yes, I'm a horrible person. Since we can't go out to bars and clubs with our friends, I invite people over for barbecues and pot lucks. For shame! I can't afford to give much to charity, so I try to click on sites that get donations for clicks. Dear god, I'm evil!

People who are willing to violate laws and generally accepted ethics (trying not to impose my own here) are not frugalists or tightwads, they're poor human beings. There are people who are willing to do unkind, or spiteful things to save a dollar. They will sit and complain about how all the entitled people have caused these horrible economic situations we're in, and then sign up for multiple e-mail accounts to receive as many discounts as possible (ignoring that whole one per household rule). I start to laugh when they justify it with their own twisted sense of entitlement as a "little guy sticking it to the man."

You can be a jerk or have an open heart, no matter what fiscal sensibility you subscribe to. I get tired of these articles that identify those who are thrifty and happen to be rude, discourteous, unethical, or criminal as "tightwads." I am a tightwad. I don't like spending money, but I love to be helpful, try to be compassionate, and above all, I'm not a jerk.

Carnivals and Links, Oh My!

So in the past week, Modern Tightwad was featured in two carnivals.



As if that isn't awesome enough, the next Festival of Frugality will be right here at Modern Tightwad! So hurry up and submit your entries!

I'm Damn Impressive!

Okay, in all fairness, we're damn impressive. I've been so busy being peeved about my upcoming highly likely unemployment, and some of our expenditures that I've forgotten to be proud of what we've done, so much of it I've forgotten to share.

1. Sold the SUV. I was underwater on my auto loan for my SUV. I had the opportunity to move my rip-off 10.9% credit union auto loan to a 0% interest credit card, and I did. Some people may think it was the wrong decision. They didn't have to deal with my c.u. that stopped sending me statements and then charged me because they "couldn't contact me" and weren't "allowed to call me or e-mail to tell me that." The peace of mind I get for not having to deal with the c.u. is way worth it. After the lien was released we decided to sell the SUV. Between gas mileage, upcoming repairs, and trying to parallel park it downtown, it was a weight lifted. Not necessarily a financial weight because of the underwater issues, but, I take what I can get.

2. Bought the most expensive frugal car ever. Instead of paying off the credit card, we decided to use the money from the sale to buy my husband his dream car. It's a '69 510 Datsun wagon. It's my dream car too because it came with enough spare parts to build almost an entirely new 510, he can work on it himself, and our insurance has dropped by 40%. Seriously. For a BARGAIN price. Now that my husband's looking at engine swaps, I know this isn't going to be as frugal as I thought it was, but he's so sexy in his goon, and the smile on his face makes it worth it. We put the remaining bucks in savings.

3. Opening my own business. I talked about the debate I had about how to start my business. I signed papers on a commercial space in the beginning of June. I love it, with great big windows in an artist's cooperative. Our family and friends are so supportive (as usual the people around me have more faith in me than I do in myself) and are promising to shower me with referrals. I'm offering bribes to cement their promises. The paint is done, the flooring's almost complete and I'm ready to get moving. I'm also looking for someone to sublet the space which will cut my rent in half. Boo-Yeah!

4. The Awesome Slash & Burn. My husband and I reviewed our expenses and even though we're losing my income, we should be able to make it on my husband's income. I'll just need to cover my business expenses, and everything over and above goes to paying off debt. If need be, I have an employment back-up plan, and I might even just get off my a$$ with my writing. I'm looking at this as a partial blessing. The more we get used to (and comfortable) with living on (even) less, the easier it will be to pay off debt when our income increases.

5. Running the numbers. After reading the Total Money Makeover, (God help me) I've put everything on paper for my husband to be able to look at. I want him to know where we are spending our money each month. Now, we'll have a running tally to know the progress we're making on debt, and we'll be on the same page.

6. Setting goals. I've talked about the importance of setting goals instead of resolutions, so I've set the following:
1. Cover all business expenses regularly within three months. (Optimal: Expenses+$500)
2. Post at least three times a week. (Optimal: Participate in 2-3 Carnivals/month)
3. Pay off half of credit card debt within one year. (Optimal: Pay off all credit card debt within one year.)
4. Be more honest in my writing. I'm not dishonest, but I'd like to put more of me into my blog. Honestly, it just hasn't been cantankerous enough when goodness knows I have been.
5. Create a side hustle within three months. (Optimal: Finish the three I've started.)

Thanks for letting me toot my (and Mr.'s) horn. How have you been impressive recently?