Which House Would You Buy?

by Andi B.

My husband and I have been informed that we could start the journey to become homebuyers, well, today. I've been looking at many different homes and one of the things that has struck me is the lifestyle choice that occurs along with a home choice.

Currently, we live in a 480 sf studio. While this has been fine for quite a while, it is not optimal for our family. We don't get to have friends stay with us, and if we have a "happy accident" we're in real trouble. We are very excited at the prospect of additional space, but we're running into two very different options.

The first option is the one we automatically thought we would go with. There are a wide variety of 650-850 sf homes, some with cosmetic fixes needed, but nothing major. It's at the bottom of our budget and we would be paying the same or less as we do for rent. The positive is it's a great entry point into the market. The negative is it would be classified as a starter home; there is a high likelyhood at some point that we would need to "upgrade."

The second option is a multi-family home or one that has a basement style apartment. It would be a larger home at the top of our price point. However we could easily rent out the other apartment, covering most of the mortgage. Any funds not paid out would go towards savings for vacant times. The positive would be the fact that we'd probably never have to move. The house we like is in the right neighborhood and would provide us with the space we need. It would also make us instant landlords. While we have a few potential renters we could pull from, eventually we might have to pull from the general public, or leave it vacant.

So what would you do if you were faced with these two options? If you've rented a portion of your house out before, would you do it again?

Jay Shafer's Tiny Home Tour

by Andi B.

I've long been infatuated with the notion of small space living or tiny homes. Here Jay Shafer of Tumbleweed Tiny Homes can be seen giving a tour of his tiny 100sf home. Watching his tour makes me wonder how much we really need. Walking to work today, I started wondering how many pairs of socks I need to replace. Honestly, how many pairs of socks do we need? (I probably need more than most since I occasionally wear two pairs when my feet start to freeze in winter.) Towards the end of the tour he explains why he lives so simply and I must say, I whole heartedly agree. Yes, there are environmental benefits, but I don't like to vacuum either.




Tightwad Meal: Steak, Asparagus, and Tropical Dessert

Since when is steak part of a tightwad meal? It is according to this week's Safeway flyer; with London Broil at $1.99 a pound, it's easy to incorporate into a family meal as a rare treat. Also at $1.99 a pound is fresh asparagus.

Vegetable: "Oven-Grilled" Asparagus
Take the asparagus and lay them out over a cookie sheet side by side. Drizzle olive oil over the top and sprinkle with a pinch of salt and as much cracked ground pepper as you like. Bake at 350 degrees until sizzling and tender.

Protein: London Broil
While the asparagus is baking, it's time to prepare the steak.
First I use my mother's LB rub:
  • 1 whole clove of garlic
  • salt
  • pepper
Crush the garlic and mix until a paste.

Rub the garlic mixture over the entire steak. As soon as the asparagus is done, turn the oven over to broil to cook your steak to desired "doneness."

Side Dish:Optional
A side dish is entirely optional at this point, as my husband and I often enjoy just a protein and vegetable. For a meal like this, mashed potatoes, biscuits/rolls or other bread may be a perfect compliment and can easily be obtained inexpensively for your pantry. I stock up on Betty Crocker's Garlic Mashed Potatoes for occasions such as these so that our side is 99 cents or less.

Dessert: Baked Bananas
This is my grandmother's favorite dessert. At under 50 cents a pound, yellow bananas make an excellent dessert. Immediately after pulling out the London Broil, put the bananas in instead, but feel free to turn off the oven. The remaining heat should bake the bananas until the peel turns black. After dinner, remove them from the oven, discard the peel and drizzle with honey. You can even add granola if you like for some added crunch to your sweet treat. Since bananas are considered to be a "starchy" fruit, adding this for dessert pretty much negates the need for an optional side dish.

This single dinner should cost a family of 2-4 no more than $10 for a gourmet meal. Since the London Broil only comes in an Extreme Value Pack (Safeway's term for bulk) you will have to purchase more than one. This is an excellent candidate for freezing until another dinner, or you can cook all the steaks at once, utilizing the precooked steaks to make fajitas, cheesesteaks, steak omelettes and other creative meals throughout the week.

Budgeting in the Fun Stuff and Yakezie Roundup

This Monday we're interviewing Crystal from Budgeting in the Fun Stuff, a Yakezie member who writes to remind us to leave room for the good things in life. After reading our interview, why don't you head on over to Budgeting in the Fun Stuff to check out our favorite BFS post of the week is Okay, I Am Being Debt Judgmental.

1. What blog/website do you read most often?
Everyday Tips and Thoughts Kris and I became friends early on in our adventures in blogging, lol. She emailed me one day just to vent to a fellow blogger and it was just so refreshing to meet someone I could really talk to about that - my husband appreciated it too, hahaha.

2. What made you start writing? Particularly in personal finance?
I've always liked writing and meeting people. When I found out about personal finance blogs at the end of last year, I became that commenter that just couldn't stop talking. I've loved the ins and outs of personal finance since I was tiny, so it just made sense to start my own blog. :-)

3. What is your favorite post that you've written and why?
"Letter to Myself 10 Years Down the Road" A bunch of emotion went into that. I was inspired by others and had a good time really thinking about what I'd tell me future self.

4. What is the best financial lesson your parents taught you?
How to prioritize. I remember them saying "If you spend that on this, you won't have it to spend on whatever you'll want later on". It seems simple, but that is one strong lesson I think quite a few people missed out on.

5. How do you feel about frugality in today's society?
Our society as a whole isn't frugal. Period. I personally don't care about frugality, specifically, but I do wish that everyone would understand that they need to save for their own futures and spend within their means. That inherently means that more people would benefit from being more careful with their money - they'd benefit from frugality.

6. Do you have a favorite cheap eat to share?
Okay, this is going to get a lot of people to stick out their tongues, but I absolutely love boxed macaroni and cheese with canned tuna. It is my comfort food and costs less than $1.50.

7. Do you have a favorite money saving tip or practice that you use?
AUTOMATE AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. It's hard to spend money you've already automatically allocated elsewhere. It's also way easier to manage your money when all the normal stuff is automatically taken care of, right?

8. Looking back on your financial life, if you had to do it all over again, is there any one thing you'd like to do over? Or one thing you believe was a pivotal moment?
I wrote a staff writer post about my biggest financial regret over at Sweating the Big Stuff (http://sweatingthebigstuff.com/what-would-you-tell-your-20-year-old-self/). Three and a half years ago my husband and I invested in a business we didn't research well first just because we were friendly with the owners. Long story short, we were grossly misinformed and ultimately lost $12,000. That is the only huge financial regret I actually have, so I guess I've been lucky overall. :-)

9. And just for fun, if you could be any superhero based on their alter ego, what would you be? (Because we all know Peter Parker and Clark Kent spent more time as themselves than walking around as superheroes.)
I'd pick Dr. Jean Grey from the X-Men before the whole Phoenix debacle. Smart, funny, and sexy as hell. I'm also a redhead, so that helps... ;-) BUT, I'd pick the Wolverine over Cyclops any day of the week.


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Vegas Vacation, Tightwad Style (With a Giveaway)

by Andi B.

My Mister and I recently had a great trip to Las Vegas, for very little out of pocket. It was our Vegas vacation, tightwad style.

Flight: I had a leftover flight credit that was going to expire and combined that with an incredible Ding! fare from Southwest. Keep your dates flexible if possible. We saved $20 per person by flying out Wednesday night instead of Thursday morning. The total cost for two tightwads to fly roundtrip from Portland to Las Vegas? $250. Put the word out to others for those flight credits, too. They don't do any good if they expire and you might be able to purchase them for pennies on the dollar.

Room: We took advantage of a deal that popped up on Travelzoo to stay at the Rio Hotel for the first two nights we stayed in Vegas at a whopping $35 a night. We stayed the remaining time as planned with family, but it's important to make sure you have relaxing time and take a vacation...when you're on vacation. After I found the deal it seemed to disappear, but I thought it had been valid through December. I googled "Rio Las Vegas $35 Hotel" and found the offer on another website. Don't ever give up on a good deal.

Food: Rule #1 is no minibar, no room service. We ate at some of our favorite off-strip locations, like Kobe Sushi on Fort Apache and Flamingo, Memphis BBQ on Rainbow, but we missed our favorite blood orange mojitos from Firefly on Paradise. There are always comparable, if not better, restaurants off the strip as there are on. For French food try Marche Bacchus at Lakeside, and for fine American dining, try Rosemary's on Sahara (They have a beer pairing for goodness sake!). One of the best meals I had this past trip was a sandwich at JJ's at the Paris, though. It was a proscuitto and provolone sandwich on a giant baguette for around $10 that was exquisite and fed both my husband and myself. If you have to stay on the strip, many fine dining restaurants are offering "Prix Fixe" menus that allow excellent food at very reasonable prices.

Transportation: Originally, we planned on renting a car. The only deals we could find were for Friday through Monday, but we were staying Wednesday through Tuesday, so we planned on taking a shuttle from the airport to the hotel. The price ranges from free to $15. From that we were going to stay close to the strip and use free shuttles to get around between hotels. Our rental car company was going to pick us up and deliver us to a $10 a day rental car deal. At the end of our trip we were going to take a shuttle, cab, or bus back to the airport. My grandmother intervened with her spare car so we didn't have to do any of it, but the point is...we had a plan.

Souvenirs: The great thing about Vegas is all the cheap souvenir places. We went to ABC stores and got very random souvenirs for everyone for around $2-4 per person, and that's only because we were aiming for under $5 instead of under $1 (also doable). Try the Fremont Street Experience for great little shops with T-shirts, shot glasses, playing cards and more.

Shows: Try Tix 4 Tonight if you want to get a good price on a show, but these are last minute, day-of tickets, and you may not get the exact one you were hoping for. There's also lots of free entertainment such as the Bellagio fountains, the Sirens at Treasure Island, the statues at Caesar's. The best show is always people watching, though. You really never know what you're going to see. Who knows? You might see a famous person drop cocaine out of a purse that isn't theirs.

Gambling: I really get out of Vegas cheaply because I don't gamble. Shock, gasp, awe, I know, but I don't. The best way to gamble in Vegas is still with the house's money. You can sometimes get a slot or table credit deal with your hotel room, or for signing up for the hotel's rewards programs. This is how Vegas tracks its comps and can be your best friend or worst nightmare depending on how much you play. Just remember, consider any bet you place as a gift to the house, or payment for entertainment; plan on it evaporating.

Giveaway: So when are you taking your Vegas vacation? How would you like to save up for it in true Vegas fashion? Well I saw the Las Vegas piggybank pictured above when I was souvenir shopping and thought it was the best souvenir for our readers! It's a 5" Vegas piggybank just itching to start holding your vacation (or other) funds. How do you enter?
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Please send us an e-mail or note in your comment to confirm you are a subscriber or to let us know you promoted it in any format. We will use a random number generator to pick a winner on November 5th (in two weeks). Thank you for your participation. This little piggy already traveled from Las Vegas to Portland. I can't wait to see where he goes next!

Catching Up With The Original Tightwad

by Andi B.

Amy Dacyczyn was my primary motivation behind developing the Modern Tightwad. I wanted to keep going where she left off. This video is courtesty of New Hampshire Public Television via YouTube, and follows up with Ms. Dacyvzyn in December of this past year. It's good to see that her lifestyle has not changed, and she is still both happy, and happily dispensing frugal wisdom.

Favorite In-Season Recipes for a Frugal Fall Dinner

by Al H.

Eating healthy and keeping to a tightwad budget is easiest when choosing produce that’s in season. You get fresh fruits and veggies at the peak of their flavor, an abundance of supply driving prices to the lowest point in the season, and one very happy gourmet cheapskate.

As we welcome fall, it’s time to start adjusting our in-season cookbook. You can find what’s in season in your area by a quick search or if you want something a bit more fancy, check out this interactive map at epicurious.com.

Here’s a fall dinner that is fresh, never fails to please and is easy on the budget.

French Onion Soup
Alton Brown makes a great French Onion Soup. Here’s an easy place to print the recipe. The recipe I use is similar to his--I make my own beef and chicken stock, I do not add apple cider and I cook my onions for five hours when I have the time--but his version is still wonderful. And onions are a fall veggie and usually quite cheap.

If you want to cheap out on the cheese, you can use a cheap Swiss instead of the more traditional Gruyère or Emmentaler, but cheese is one place I don’t mind being a little less frugal about.

Because it’s so tasty and filling, what with the bread and cheese and all, I find this soup to be a great single course meal. Maybe it’s because we don’t have big appetites here in our household, I dunno, but if you want another course then behold:

Roast Chicken with Vegetables
Thomas Keller is one of the world’s greatest chefs yet his Roast Chicken is marvelous in its simplicity. I’ve made this many times and it never fails to please. Stores like Safeway often have whole chicken at 79-99 cents a pound. Try to use fresh thyme (tips on growing your own herbs in containers coming soon) but dried will do well too. If thyme is not to your liking then we can’t be friends. Substituting rosemary or oregano will begin to mend our relationship, or just leave it off and go with butter or olive oil.

Since your oven is already on, pair this with some roasted cauliflower and sweet potatoes. Roasting veggies like this is easy. Just cut into bite sized pieces, toss with some salt and olive oil, place them in a pan and roast at about 400-450°F until done--about 40 minutes to an hour. Stir the pan a bit every 15 minutes or so to get a nice even brown color and sprinkle a bit of fresh ground pepper before serving. Tasty, healthy, delicious and cheap. Life is good.

Poached Pears in Reduced Red Wine
I don’t eat dessert that often and I’ll be surprised if you still have room for it after all this good stuff. Have something simple like pears in yogurt or, for a more rustic flavor, poached pears in red wine. I like to use a similar recipe but I like a single clove in each pear. The ancient Romans used to make this very recipe and while this has no relevance to our conversation here it’s something you can bring up to your friends to make you look like a real gastronome. I made this recipe a few times using canned pear halves (hey, they were on sale!) and it came out fine, if a bit on the sweet side. A little lemon counteracted the sweetness, which I then completely undid with a dollop of fresh whipped cream.

Cooking in-season is easy, cheap and tasty. It’s what countless generations of cooks had to do before supermarkets shipped out-of-season produce from one side of the world to the other, and so it’s also a very planet-friendly thing to do. Give it a shot and let us know how it turned out.

Editor's Note: Please give a warm welcome to Al, an excellent Writer/Editor who is new to Modern Tightwad, but brings years of experience in both writing and frugality. He'll be contributing regularly to the day-to-day operations and writing of MT. I'm sure you'll both enjoy and benefit from his expertise as much as I have.

Hat Math


by Andi B.

Sometimes my husband is a personal finance genius. We were shopping at Target, and I happened upon a black felt cloche hat that I love. I'm on a bit of a 1920s kick, but I did not want to spend the money (even though I needed a new hat). At a cost of $15, I told my hubby that I wasn't sure I wanted to spend that money.

"It's only $10 worth of fun," I said.
"Well, even if it was only $5 worth of fun, you only have to wear it three times for it to be a good purchase. It's hat math."

So now, we have hat math in our house. When we want to decide if something is worth the expense, we think about how much it costs, how much value we would get from it, and how much we would expect to use it for. If the numbers match up well, eureka, it's hat math!

I didn't buy the hat that day, but I went back and purchased it a couple days later. In Portland it rains quite a bit, and I didn't have a dress hat for work or church. The amount of times I will wear that hat is more than enough for it to be worth it. What can I say? It's good hat math.

Photo of my new hat: A Mossimo Felt Cloche from Target

Financially Poor Interview and Yakezie Roundup

On Mondays we'll be highlighting several Yakezie members and presenting a round-up of our favorite articles around the network. Today, Kevin from Financially Poor was gracious enough to grant me an interview; he is a Certified Bankruptcy Counselor and enjoys helping fix their finances on and off line. In addition to his interview, check out our favorite from Financially Poor this week: Financially Freedom and the Grocery Store.


1. What blog/website do you read most often?

That's a tough one because my feed reader is packed with a bunch of PF blogs and blogs about blogging. I'd say the one I most look forward to is Girl With The Red Balloon because she always writes about her personal life and it's really entertaining (in a good way). She really gets me thinking about what I would do in her situation.


2. What made you start writing?

I'm not a talkative guy but I have a lot of ideas and opinions. I just chose not to talk about them but I wanted a way to let them out. I started a blog several years back that I wanted to involve a lot of success stories about personal finance but that never panned out. So I finally felt I could get something going this time and started Financially Poor; so far so good.


3. What is your favorite post that you've written and why?

A lot of my first posts were a lot of me trying to change people's minds about money, which I think is what needs to happen in order for change. However, my favorite post is Bankruptcy Is Not A Sin because It really goes into my thoughts on bankruptcy and why it's not as bad as everyone portrays it.


4. As a bankruptcy counselor, would you consider yourself a bankruptcy advocate?

I would say so. It's not an easy decision due to the stigma attached to it but it's there for a reason. If I had a choice of dying from stress or getting out of my debts, I would choose get rid of my debts in a heart beat. Yes I do think people get themselves into that mess but people do make mistakes in life and they shouldn't have to suffer forever just because of it. I do however feel that if you do get into the situation again due to your own negligence then you need to seek help.


5. How do you feel about frugality in today's society?

I think it's making a comeback but I think it's just a temporary society will go back to spending more than they make. That's really odd since with so much technology to make it really easy to be frugal; you would think more people would be that way. It's just the way it is, when people have money to spend they spend it, when they don't have money they become frugal.


6. Do you have a favorite money saving tip or practice that you use?

Really the most common advice is the best, and that is to pay yourself first. I learned that if I wait until the end of the month to put money into savings then I find a way to spend it.


7. Looking back on your financial life, if you had to do it all over again, is there any one thing you'd like to do over? Or one thing you believe was a pivotal moment?

I'll go with the cliché, I wouldn't change anything. Life is about experiences and making mistakes. If I didn't make those mistakes then I wouldn't have taken the necessary steps to learn about personal finance. I'd say the pivotal moment would have been when I had to keep telling my roommates to wait until I get paid next week in order to pay the bills. I knew there was a problem and had to change my habits. It wasn't over night but it eventually changed for the better.


8. And just for fun, if you could be any superhero based on their alter ego, what would you be? (Because we all know Peter Parker and Clark Kent spent more time as themselves than walking around as superheroes.)

Oh that's a good one. I would say batman would be my choice. And really the main reason would be just so I can go around saying "I am Batman" to everyone.


For other good reading:
Even A Little Movement Is Better Than None at Beating Broke has a great reminder that any effort is good effort.
20 Tips for Saving Money on Groceries at Canadian Finance Blog is a pretty complete list of saving on one of the most variable monthly expenses.
Random Acts of Kindness is the best new budget line item I've seen at Christian Common Cents.
Financial Samurai has a very interesting savings boost with How Higher Taxes Saved Me A Boatload of Money.

There were way too many great articles this week and I read through as many as I could, but hopefully we'll get through more next week. Thank you for visiting.
Single Mom, Rich Mom asks Tightwad or Frugal-what's the diff? (The "diff" is that tightwads are awesome.)

We are in the Yakezie

On Wednesday, Modern Tightwad joined the Yakezie Challenge. Yakezie is a group of bloggers who focus on personal finance and lifestyle development. Through "selflessly promoting others" we hope to give lesser known writers a solid footing and personal stage in the blogosphere. Every Monday we'll be publishing an interview with a Yakezie member or challenger, along with a list of some of our favorite posts of the week. We look forward to interacting with many of you in the coming months.

You'll Save on Utilities? Maybe.

This week I was reading a post on GRS (Get Rich Slowly) called Swapping Convenience for Low Costs. It was a really well written and thoughtful article on the choices we make and how major expenses are usually due to wanting something to be convenient. I know in my life, the major area of cost is always eating out, due to being too tired, too sick, and occasionally too lazy to cook.

What really caught my eye was a comment by Matt Jabs from Debt Free Adventure. He and his wife are selling their home. Their monthly housing payment will drop by over half with the "added bonus of lowering...utility costs." Mmmm, okay?

I hear this a lot actually, especially since we've started looking for a house again. "Oh, and remember, your utility costs are going to be a lot higher with a house." If they were I'd poop twinkies and move into a cardboard box. Our space in Portland is under 500 square feet. When we started looking at a house, I consulted several friends who had houses in the size and age range we were looking at. For a third of the space, I'm paying almost three times what they do in utilities. Why? There are several possible reasons:

Appliances
All of our appliances are much older. The refrigerator is sporadic at deciding whether or not it will cool or freeze our mayonnaise, the dishwasher fondly remembers Reagan, and the stove/oven has no sense of the words "even" or "continuous" when it comes to heat.

We have a 50 gallon water heater (yes that's five-oh) for our small space that has broken twice, but since it heats at least half the tank at any given time, considered more than enough for our space, here we sit. Our friend who repairs water heaters told us it's more than 20 years old, and the last two maintenance guys who suggested the complex replace it mysteriously disappeared. Maybe our water heater ate them?

Insulation/Weatherization
As many know, apartments don't always have the best insulation. This isn't just an issue when your neighbor's playing Bohemian Rhapsody at midnight in a poor attempt to cover a loud argument, it also affects your utility bills. Our apartment is very poorly sealed, but in the general scheme of things complexes only have to meet certain basic standards. Asking for additional weather-proofing is not required or prioritized by a complex that isn't paying utilities. There's a lot you can try to do with draft dodgers, etc., but you can't add insulation to the walls, replace windows, etc.

Neighbor Effect
Your neighbors may also have random unknown effects on your utilities. Remembering the previously mentioned poor insulation, when two sets of my surrounding neighbors went away for work and vacations during Portland's big freeze last winter, I got to pay to heat their apartments, too. Heating and cooling occur by a type of osmosis. Insulation allows you to keep the temperature in an enclosed area different than it is outside. Without insulation, all the sections grow to a kind of equilibrium. It's hard enough to heat one 45 degree apartment; heating three will freeze any checkbook.

Complex Requirements
Another thing that happened during that nasty freeze was our complex added some clarifications to several vague clauses in our lease. If our apartment wasn't kept at a certain temperature and freeze damage occurred, we would be held responsible for all resulting damages to the building. Trying to get our apartment up to the required temperature was daunting, frustrating, and at some points impossible or unnecessary.

Caveat
Many people will say, "Well there's no guarantee your house will be properly weatherized or insulated or that you'll have energy efficient appliances." I completely agree, but the level of control is different. When you own your own property you can put in weather stripping. You can replace a sliding glass door that is so continually off track it might as well be open all winter. You don't have to hope something is deemed a valid or necessary repair.

Back to the Fallacy
Getting back to the original point, there are many factors that will alter what you pay in utilities, and renting vs. owning isn't one of them. This post mostly addresses apartment living, but the concept is still the same when renting a house as well. If you want to make sure you pay the least in utilities, look for updated weatherization and energy efficient appliances when you enter. Make sure the building shows signs of continuous maintenance.

I hope Matt does very well in his current downsizing, and I'm glad the potential utility savings is a bonus and not necessary. You just never know which way that pendulum will swing.